Think Outside the Box And Speak Up!
These columns are designed to get readers to think outside the box on issues of crime and justice, to ponder new possibilities for dealing with crime and to meet new people you might otherwise never come in contact with.
Some of my columns elicit kind words, some spark angry comments and still others introduce me to people who amaze me.
On my column about Tiger Woods being in a cage of his own making, reader Karen Kennemer wrote, “Its time there was some outrage over the behavior of our “celebrities”… it’s time to stop worshiping the ground they walk on. We have to stop idolizing the people who entertain us.” [click to continue…]
by Diane on February 8, 2010
Troubled Children Can Turn Criminal
E very human being needs to feel connected – attached – to other human beings around them. It’s an innate craving we all have and cannot fight. The hunger for attachment begins with infants who bond with their mother’s soothing voices, tender caresses and nurturing care. It’s through this kind of attention the child comes to know the feelings of being safe and protected. The quality of the early bonds children form with adults in their world will affect every relationship they’ll have for the rest of their lives.
Sadly, some children never get the love they need to grow into healthy, empathetic, trusting people. As they grow they form their own protective shield to keep out the rest of the world. They have no trust in others and their behavior often turns self-destructive and even criminal.
What ails this unfortunate group now has a name: Reactive Attachment Disorder. [click to continue…]